Kind of Like Superwoman.

When you love someone, you give them complete power to destroy your world. Isnt that a scary thought? You have no idea how bad things can get, how absolutley horrible you are able to feel until youve had your heart broken.

Have you ever read the Twilight series (by Stephenie Meyer)? I read the series last summer. And now Im reading it again and I see Bella in a whole new light. I understand her catatonic state. I know what its like to feel like you have no one...like you just cant go on. After all of that i realize i can relate to Bella.

"...Before you...my life was like a moonless night. Very dark, but there were stars--points of light and reason...And then you shot across my sky like a meteor. Suddenly everything was on fire; there was brilliancy, there was beauty. When you were gone, when the meteor had fallen over the horizon, everything went black. Nothing had changed, but my eyes were blinded by the light. I couldnt see the stars anymore. And there was no more reason for anything."
- New Moon (Book 2)

Ive learned so much from my heartache. Never ever should you feel that you arent complete without a man. It is so important to be comfortable being alone..comfortable loving yourself. Love has so many risks, but i want all of you to be strong enough to withstand them. I dont want anyone to experience what me (or Bella) went through.

Is it weird that I feel like God gave me that situation for a reason? So that I can share it with others..and maybe prevent other women from falling victim to weakness. To shield others from self consciousness..from neediness. I honestly believe that I can make a difference in so many lives.

Is that weird?

LessThan3

Hey my loves! I know ive been gone for a while....but im back with a vengeance!

Ive been feeling so lovey dovey lately..its kind of gross lol. I LOVE the feeling though. There is no better feeling than when you put your guard down and simply allow yourself to fall...trust me. I love that my friends are experiencing the same things that I am...and im happy for them.

Its not easy, but you can do it! Weve all felt hopeless before. Unlovable. Unattractive. Un-everything. But sweetheart, if you dont learn to love yourself first how can you possibly expect him to love you? Everyone should take this summer and make it productive as hell. Work on your self-confidence..become comfortable being alone..try to understand who you are. The summer of self exploration.

Learn to ask God not for what you want, but for the strength to make it through each day. One at a time, step by step.Dont focus on your flaws (everyone has them!)and what other people think of them, instead focus on how you can improve on yourself for your own happiness. I guarantee you will wake up each morning with a whole new outlook on life. Become strong. You'll feel different but you'll also look different. People will begin noticing that brand new glow that youre giving off.

Once you fall in love with yourself you'll be able to truly open your heart up to another. A man loves a woman with confidence, and your new found aura may just set his world on fire!!

Lets start a movement ladies...its called the LessThan3 (<3) movement. Lets all fall in love...with ourselves!!