Morning Thoughts

I dont think I've met him yet.

Who? My husband.

Dont get me wrong...I've been head over heels in love. In fact, I still am [but thats another post]. Its just...all of the guys I've met have been selfish as hell. When I look at my parents relationship...they love each other unconditionally. Even when they fight. Even when they argue. Its all irrelevant to them. Their love shines through and they never let the bullshit affect their family. They get over it. They realize that they have to work hard to get all that they want out of their relationship...and they have no problem doing so. They share a common goal. They compromise.

I've never met someone who was willing to do that for me...or I them. The dudes I've met havent been husband material. That kind of scares me. Sure I've met someone that I would absolutely adore spending my life with....but deep down I know it wouldnt be right. He's too selfish to love me the way that I need him to. Hell, he's too selfish to love me the way that he wants to.

The good thing is...I think I'll know it when I finally do meet him. The one guy who will make all of the others seem insignificant. The man willing to work for our love.

I know he's out there.

The Trifest Nigga, What.

"If you have a shortie, but you dont show love, oh yes son, im talkin to you."

so today im facebook browsing (stalking...watevs) and i come across this random girls page. i start going through her pics and i notice she has pics with this one dude...over and over and over again. the same dude who tried to talk to me a few months back. LOL.

i dig a lil deeper and find out that theyve been together damn near a year! shes writin notes about how in love she is and shit. and i cant help but feel a little disgusted. hes triflin as hell.

i dont understand how guys can tell one girl they love her. that shes his world...that he wants this forever...but hes still chasin the hoes! it makes no sense to me. how dare you hurt someone you "love"?

i feel so bad for this girl, you dont even know. females are so blinded by the fairytale, that we dont realize when were being played. its sad.

guys..please dont wife her if youre not ready. dont break her heart...please. if you love her, let her know. treat her right. be there for her. wipe her tears when shes sad. rub her back when shes not feeling well. dont cheat on her.

if you feel like your going to, let her go. dont keep secrets. be real with her. love her enough, not to hurt her.

dont make her cry.

respect her enough to stay true to her, like she stays true to you.

dont do anything to her, that you wouldnt want her to do to you.