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30.9.11

Rule #3

Rule #3 You Have to Be Cruel To be Kind. 

As you all know, I've been assistant coaching JV cheerleading since July. I absolutely love it. Cheerleading is my passion. Seriously. Although I only cheered for 4 years (2 years middle school, 2 years varsity) I became quite good. AMAZINGGGGGG motions, pretty jumps, and I was a kick ass back. Im proud to say, after 4 long years of not cheering...I STILL GOT IT. Heres where this happy nostalgic story ends.

I love my JV girls. But they are EXTREMELY lazy. So lazy it annoys me. Like...we had Hell Week a few weeks ago (basically extreme boot camp) and they finished the week out amazing. Jumps were so much better, motions were....alright, they had begun doing elite stunts, they had perfect pushups (they do them every time the football team scores), and were making progress with their tumbling . I was so proud of them. 3 weeks later and they look like the bottom of my shoe. All of the hard work they (and the coaches) put in isn't apparent anymore.

What pisses me off is that they have the potential to be phenomenal. They are one of the most advanced JV teams I've ever seen. Id be perfectly fine with them looking like shit if I wasn't aware of their potential....but I am, so Im not. Im the nice coach. I try to give constructive criticism in a nice way because I know how sensitive teen girls can be. But those days are over.

I've learned that with this particular group of girls you HAVE to be a drill sergeant. I have to be cruel to be kind.

I want them to go to competition and place. Hell...I want them to go to competition and WIN. If being the mean coach is what will motivate them to get there then Im more than willing to sacrifice their 'like' towards me. I want them to take this seriously. They want to be seen as athletes, they have to work to prove they're worthy of the title.

5.8.11

Blog On Fire!


I was awarded my first blog award ever by the lovely Carrymel!! Thank you so much, this made my day! Everyone should check out her blog =]

The rules say that I need to tag 10 people. Here are a few of my favorite blogs:

Abigail at As I Am
Asia, Kimberly, and Soraya at FWB
Katie at Oh, Heyy Life
Kristen at Pure Joy
Mama Bear at The Little Bee
Ashley at Lofty Desires

Next they say I have to share 7 random facts about myself. Here goes:

1) I am obsessed with the color purple. If it's purple, I'll buy it. Seriously. I have purple nail polish remover, listerine, spray starch, wallets, slippers, mirrors, etc. I love it!
2) I have a birth mark on my neck thats shaped like a tiny heart <3
3) I want to be a doctor so badly that it hurts. But I want to have a successful family one day even more.
4) I love knowing random information, I google everything.
5) Im probably the most stubborn person ever. Nothing you say to me will ever change my opinion on anything.
6) I have to go to Greece before I die.
7) I am a hopeless hopeful romantic.

Id like to thank all of my readers for supporting my blog thus far. To all of the people that I tagged, its your turn now! Tag 10 blogs && share 7 random facts about yourself. GO! =]
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