i have.
its so awkward. grabbing my waist (and ass), kissing my shoulders, cuffin in the club -__-
how do you tell someone to leave you alone without ruining a friendship? ive tried jokingly saying, "oh boy u better stop!" and when that didnt work i tried the serious approach, "im serious...get OFF of me!!"
i know hes drunk..but come on man.
its not scary to the point that i think he would cause me any physical harm. i know hes not that kind of guy. but i dont think that i should have to feel uncomfortable while im out with friends trying to have a good time.
this has happened to me on more than one occasion with more than one guy friend. NO im not giving off any signals, because im not attracted to these guys in any way,shape, or form. im nice...and friendly...but do i really look that damn approachable?!
suggestions?
just tell them the truth. you're not attracted to them and it makes you feel uncomfortable. i know exactly how you feel. the creeps, or the ones you just AREN'T attracted to, have the most confidence and feel like the signal is a go. you just have to let them know. no one likes to beat around the bush.
ReplyDeleteyea youre right. i was trying to be the nice guy...but that clearly doesnt work lol.
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