The hardest part about being in a relationship to me is maintaining my individuality. Dont get me wrong; I loveeeeee being an 'us'. But I do feel like in the age of social media/technology it limits me as a person.
I havent blogged in months.
Truth is...I havent felt like I could blog without people taking the things that I write the wrong way by equating my random thoughts to some sort of discord within my relationship.
I mean...I am allowed to think...right?
Every tweet I send creates an uproar of gossip and speculation. Every random song lyric, every revelation, every opinion, every lesson learned...has become a reflection of my relationship.
Is it possible to be an 'Us' while maintaining my 'Me'?
Or is this a sacrifice that I will have to make in order to be with the man that I love?
...sometimes a thought...is just a thought.
YEah i agree with Rose, always make time for You within your relationship, sometimes we often get lost in the Us and it starts to feel like you lose your identity within the relationship.
ReplyDeleteThat's my biggest fear. I've been in relationships that have made me lose sight of myself before and I refuse to let that happen again!
DeleteYes! i know what you mean. I'm not in a relationship but i feel hindered to blog sometimes because I feel people may think that I feel this or that way about a certain thing, event, situation, that something HAS to mean something. When yea its really just a thought, a simple inquiry.
ReplyDeleteYes it sucks! But I'm going back to my old ways. MY blog is MY blog...and if people dont like the things that I write then they do not have to read!
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Aw thank you, I've missed blogging! Im going to take your advice and make a list of the things that I love. Im glad that you can relate.
ReplyDeleteGreat entry.. . You've inspired me to start blogging again and not worry about the potential gossip out of MY thoughts. & As for the "us" - - don't worry, you won't lose YOU again because you're already aware of it this time.
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